I am Carole’s aunt (Bob’s sister) from Tilbury, Ontario. I am very sorry to hear of Carole’s passing and I would like to offer my condolences to her husband and children. She had a beautiful family and they will certainly miss her. The last time I saw her was at her mom’s funeral in November.
Rest in Peace Carole.
I was one of the many people who were fortunate to have known and worked with Carole during her years at Goodby, Silverstein & Partners in San Francisco.
I thoroughly enjoyed every moment of every interaction I had with her. She was, as you know, super smart. But she had not not just intellectual intelligence – she also had incredible emotional intelligence. She could see right through the masks that we all try to put on and and sense what was really going on underneath. And she cared deeply about what others felt and what mattered to them.
If we were frustrated that we could not find a solution to a client’s business problem, Carole could quickly point the way down a smart, previously unthought of path. if we were upset with our own internal problems or issues, she could quickly relieve our stress with her (wonderfully) outrageous sense of humor and biting laugh.
Though it’s been many years since she left GSP, her influence on the way the company thinks and behaves continues to be felt. Hundreds of people have joined the company since Carole left, but I am sure they would all feel instantly at home with Carole if she were somehow to miraculously be transported back there today.
I myself had lost touch with Carole until only a few weeks ago, when we reconnected via Facebook. The pictures she posted there and the things she wrote there about life with all of you (and your animals!) made me jealous.
I can only imagine how hard a blow it is to have her
taken away from you so suddenly and so young. I can also only hope that you can take some comfort in knowing that during her too-short time here on earth she gave so much to so many people. Thanks for sharing her with the rest of us.
All best wishes in these difficult days, and for the future.
I will never forget Carole, the woman who was cheering on Billie’s hockey game one minute, rocking out to Noah’s music another minute, madly in love with her husband, farmer girl the next minute and being a snuggle bug with Echo. Carole you were one of a kind so caring and loving. We will miss you greatly, but are
comforted knowing that you have peace.
Love,
D’Arcy, Bill, Eli and Abby
Sheila Hume
May 17, 2010 at 4:21 am
We go back to a time before kids, when it was all about our puppies! Then came our children.
I didn’t get to see Carole as much when the family moved from Vancouver to Portland, but the love I felt for her and her family never waivered. Her wit, her intelligence and warmth was unmatched. I will never forget our last hug and seeing her standing with Cole, happy in her farm home with her wonderful family and animals!
I love you my friend and will miss you always.
Much love to Dan and the kids.
Oh Noah, Billie, and Echo . . . what a beautiful reflection you are of your mother’s love and devotion to you. There are no words that will truly comfort you, but I can tell you from recent experience that hearing the tribute bestowed on my mother made me so proud to be her daughter. Each day, your lives will be a tribute to her, in loving memory of her and what she wanted for you. You are precious and I consider myself blessed to be one of those in a huge long line of people who will stand by you and be there for you. With much love,
Mrs. Swanson
Your mom was beautiful inside and out. We are so blessed to have shared in her life and have you three here in the Corbett Schools. We will miss your mom dearly, but think of her fondly. You three are incredible kids—so talented, bright and fun and so very precious to your mom. She loved you immensely.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
I am deeply saddened to hear of Carole’s death. My condolences go out to her husband and children. Also, my deepest sympathies to my Uncle Bob and cousins Tom and Doug. Unfortunately, I have not seen Carole since a Rankin reunion in the early 90s. My memories of Carole are of when we were children and would see each other when our families visited our grandparents in Tillsonburg. I recall spending a couple summer vacations with Carole at her home in Tillsonburg and when she lived in Port Rowan where my Uncle Bob owned and ran a bowling alley. Those were the days we (Tom, Doug, Carole and I) would run behind the scenes setting the pins back up when they were knocked down by bowlers. Good memories, I will cherish. Carole will be deeply missed.
I only had the privilege of meeting Carol once or twice in passing at the rink when Danny and I were playing hockey together. While I didnt know her personally if she is anything like Dan she must have been nothing short of amazing.
I cant even find the word to express my thoughts for you Dan and your family so I will just say this, I love ya buddy and if you need anything dont hesitate to shoot that email or phone call to me.
I (Jonathan) am one of Dan’s cousins; (my Mom is a sister of Dan’s Mom). We were devastated to hear this terribly sad news. Our hearts go out to Daniel, Noah, Billy and Echo, to Seymour and Anita, to Carole’s family, and to all of their extended family. We send our condolences and we know that Carole’s wonderful husband and children will remember her always, as will we. We grieve with all of you.
Some people believe that we all have auras; an invisible radiation that seems to surround an individual or thing. There is a belief that sometimes this energy is so strong, others can feel it. Most people will use the example of walking into a room after an argument has occurred, and being able to feel the tension without knowing what had happened first. I want to say that every time I was in Carole’s presence, I felt undeniable love. It surrounded her. I noticeably felt good whenever Carole was near.
We sometimes cross paths with people who leave us in awe, and to me, Carole always had this affect. Whether it was her gentle grace with her beloved animals, or her adoring affection and beaming pride she exuded while with her husband and children, Carole didn’t seem to have to use words to explain this love. Its energy just encircled you.
It is my belief that when people or things have this much energy inside them, it is not lost, merely dispersed and I think this positive energy is Carole’s gift to us. In a world where it can be too easy to feel scared and uncertain of anything, it’s Carole’s energy that will make us feel at ease and more importantly, love. As said by the Beatles, “All you need is love,” and I take comfort in knowing that when I feel it without reason, it is because I am feeling her energy around me. I want to thank her for that. I feel so fortunate to have even been in her presence.
I am Carole’s aunt (Bob’s sister) and I am so sorry to hear of Carole’s passing. Please accept my condolences to Dan, Noah, Billie and Echo – you will have an angel in Heaven watching over you.
To Daniel, Noah, Billie, Echo, and all of Carole’s extended family,
I can’t put into words how truly sorry I am for your loss. I will always remember Carole’s remarkable smile, infectious laugh, and tremendous love I saw her radiate when she was around her family. I hope one day it will bring you comfort to know that even people who knew her for a very short time thought she was beautiful inside and out and believe that she was truly one of a kind. There has been and always will be a special place in my heart for Carole.
Daniel, our deepest deepest sympathy and condolences go out to you and the children. I (Elizabeth) only met Carole once a couple of years ago at the Seder at your parents in Michigan, but her passing nonetheless is no less significant to me. I CANNOT even imagine what you are going through now!! We are thinking of you and the children with love.
Daniel,
Words cannot express the loss you must feel, but I pray that you can find solace in knowing how much you and your family are loved. We are sending our prayers for peace and understand in this difficult time.
With love–
Jim and Lisa
Although I only met Carole briefly over a long weekend, her warmth and enthusiasm for her children and Daniel shone forth so clearly. Daniel, my heart goes out to you and your family now, during this incredibily difficult time.
With love–
Jenny Thomas and family
Daniel – I never had the opportunity to meet Carole in person, but enjoyed the many stories you shared of your family over the years we worked together. I always felt that you were one of the lucky ones who found his soul mate and I am deeply sorry for your loss. Carole will be with you and your children in spirit always– Lorna
We never had the privilege of knowing Carole directly..but her vibrant spirit and good nature shine through in daughter Echo – whom we have come to know over the past year via the classroom she shares with our daughter Elanor. We wish your family peace and grace in this wrenching time; strength and everlasting love going forward.
Dan,
I send you my sincere hopes for whatever comfort can be found at a time when full consolation is unimaginable. The best wishes of my family go out to you all at this very sad time. I only met Carole briefly, but her energy was great, and her warm and loving nature apparent. We’ll be thinking of you. Tom, Karen, Julia, and Jenny.
Our hearts go out to each of you. Carole was really special. Upon meeting her I felt as if I had always known her. We attended many field trips together, your Halloween parties, sat near each other at plays and school dinners. We shared that special love of animals. I so hoped to know her better. Hugs to each of you. You are a reflection of her warmth, humor and the gentle sweetness that she extended to others. Please know that Cami, Peri, Rob and I are thinking of you at this time. We are very sorry and hope that time will bring you peace.
Dear Dan,
I had the chance to meet Carole a few months ago and was struck by her radiance. I hope that your memories bring you strength at this time of remarkable loss. Our thoughts are with you.
All the wonderful memories collected in the thoughts above say it all. I am a friend of Carole’s from Tillsonburg where we grew up. I have so many memories of such fun times- although I am sure our parents wouldn’t call them all fun. I just can’t imagine life without the fullness and brightness of Carole’s smile in it. I guess we can just remember and think of how bright heaven now is with her in it. I miss her terribly.
As I sorted through my pictures I didn’t realize how good Carole was at avoiding the camera. If anyone can share pictures with me I would appreciate it. My email is sdberlet@execulink.com
Take care
My heart goes out to you and the kids. Carole was my cousin and great friend growing up. We spent many an hour together feeding the ducks in Simcoe, catching pike in Port Rowan (live), sharing dreams for the future and our looove for Rush (yes its true). Carole stood up with me in my wedding. I have so many memories but what stands out for me is Carole’s humour and passion. Even though we did not talk often I will miss her like mad. Love you Carole. Michele
A woman of briliance, beauty, compassion, and playfulness. It was such a pleasure to speak with her – always left me feeling like a dear old friend had just given me a warm and welcoming hug. And her laugh! So lovely and full of joy. Thinking of you Daniel during this most difficult of times. I am so very sad, but will not miss the joy of the blessings she brought. Kelly
I am Carole’s brother-in-law. From the day that I met Carole, I always looked forward to spending time with her. Carole was so funny, cool, and kind to me. Walking around the house I keep expecting to hear the sound of her laughter around every corner. She always knew what to say to make me feel good when times were bad, I wish I could hear her now.
I love you sister-in-law and miss you so much. The only thing that has made this dark time bearable is that I see so much of you and your light in your beautiful children. I am so happy you met and married my brother. Even if your time with us was short, it was very sweet. Love you always Carole. David
Dear Daniel,
I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you strength and peace.
With love,
Kimberly Hoskins
I knew your mother and father long before you were born. In fact, in a strange way I guess I played an unwitting part in bringing them together. In 1989 I joined Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein in San Francisco as planning director, and the very first time I spoke about planning to the agency, Carole (who was already there, working in account management) came up to me and said, ‘I want to do that job.’ She was smart and funny in an infectious kind of way, knowing instinctively how to do the job before she’d even started. She was great with clients, great with creatives, and people in the real world would just want to tell her things that they had never told anyone else. She was awesome – apart from the day when she told Jeff Goodby that his great advertising line, “got milk?” should really be “have you got enough milk?” she was flawless, inspired, inspiring. And much, much smarter than I will ever be… but that was okay because if she knew that – and I’m sure she did – she never let on.
And then I hired your father. Daniel was the first big hire from another agency in my department, and Carole instantly resented his presence. It was her department, and he was an imposter. In his early weeks at the agency, everything Carole did and said indicated that she couldn’t stand him. And I came to accept that as normal: Carole didn’t like Daniel, and I should try to keep them apart.
A year or so later, when Daniel resigned, I felt duty-bound to inform Carole, as the longest-standing member of my department, before she heard the news from someone else. I went to her office and told her that Daniel was leaving, and she immediately burst into tears. After that rocky start, they had slowly come to accept each other, then started dating… as Shakespeare said, ‘The course of true love never did run smooth.’
Carole married Daniel and they moved away, to Vancouver and then to Portland. And some time along the way, you were all born. I never saw your mother again after she left San Francisco, but recently I was thrilled to get back in touch with her on Facebook – to hear about you, and your animals, and your wonderful life in Oregon. Even reading her words on a computer screen, I could hear her voice and feel her energy. And whenever I think of her I can still hear her laughter.
I’ll always be grateful to Carole, because without her Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein would have been a very different place. People who worked there in later years, who never even knew her, owe her so much. Because more than helping to grow the agency, Carole’s personality had helped to shape its culture in its early, more malleable days.
Your mother was a wonderful woman. And her loss hurts so many of us. But to read the comments above, and to feel what I feel about her, I know that in her limited time with us, Carole touched so many people so very deeply. If most people lived to be 300 years old, they could not affect others in the way that Carole did in a fraction of the time.
It would be easy to say that we’ll all miss her. But that wouldn’t be true, because I suspect that for anyone who ever knew her, she’ll always be there.
From Carole’s extended family in Indiana we send you all our thoughts and prayers.A smile that lit up a room, a sense of humor that brightened a cloudy day, and a heart bursting with love for the world.May you carry this in your hearts always. Fly free, Carole, Love, Sue
My thoughts have been with your family all week. I knew Carole as the vibrant, loving, funny and very cool mom of Echo. I was Echo’s teacher for two years and was totally enchanted by Carol’s sense of humor and spunk with the kids. She made us all smile.
Please be comforted by the abundance of warm thoughts for your family.
Megan Shaw
Love and thoughts from SF! Sorry I cannot make it up there Friday. Big HUGS and LOVE to Noah, Billie,Echoand Dan! I will always remember your mom as a breath of fresh air whenever she would come in to SOR. She always brought a smile and humor, we had good laughs. I always appreciated a her ability to say what she was thinking. She was one of my favorites! Caroles beauty, humor and spirit will live on in each of you! Love Greta
It was such a pleasure to meet you last year when you visited Alex in NYC, and we 3 had dinner at the party-light-busy-Indian restaurant I recommended, before–oops–i fully thought through our collective shins’ lengths VS. the relatively shorter ones of the good people who laid out the tables.
Anyway–that evening–I was enchanted by the idyllic life you described that your family enjoyed, and how much it resembled the happier times of my own childhood.
Everything expressed by you, and everyone here, has made me deeply sad that you and Carole’s time together as a 2, and as a family, was brief, but PROFOUNDLY aware the value of what can be joyous and fortuitous in what is brief.
I wish you, and your dear, precious kid-lings, peace.
I am in awe of Carole’s humor, creativity and gift of expression. Reading the memories posted here, I hear her laugh. She was a passionate, dedicated mom, yet down to earth too, and so reassuring when I was expecting my first baby.
May her love and radiance warm you forever, and may the love of many friends sustain you through this difficult time. We are here for you Dan, Noah, Billie and Echo.
I am sorry that I did not know Carole better, but my daughter Sydney is in Echo’s class. We send you condolences, please do not hesitate to let us know if there is anything we can do or if you just need someone to listen.
Lots of Love from Sydney, Cynthia and Jeff Mershon
Uncle Dan’s brother said it perfectly … and that is what I will miss the most as well … Aunt Carole’s crazy infectious laugh that could be heard from every corner of the house/yard. Due to distance we weren’t able to get together as often as most families but when we did it was as if we were together all the time. I will miss the crazy LOUD laugh the most … when we’re all together, once you heard that laugh you just couldn’t help but to laugh with her.
“The most wasted of all days is one without laughter” – E. E. Cummings
I work with Daniel and Sandstrom. Although I did not get to know Carole well, I had the opportunity to spend a little time with her at work parties and I enjoyed talking to her, hearing funny stories and family anecdotes. A very charming, sweet and funny woman. And as I get to know Daniel over our few years of working together, I know how much love, caring and devotion their family has for each other. His tales of family adventure on the farm or with the kids is always entertaining and you can see the joy it brings to him. My thoughts are with all of you as you celebrate the time you have spent together and as you find strength and joy for the future.
Every morning I am reminded of Carole’s light. Many years ago, a few days before mothers day , I returned home to find a perfect lavender hydrangea in a simple clay pot waiting for me on our patio. A week before Carole had come for a visit with Noah and Billie. She was pregnant with Echo. It was a beautiful day. We spent the afternoon talking and watching the kids play in the backyard, and throwing the “fetch ball” to Cole. It was one of those days when everything felt right; the children, the dog,and a good friend. A week later I came home to find the hydrangea with a note attached that read: I love you….Carole.
The small hydrangea is now huge, and I walk past it many times a day. I feel very blessed to have had Carole in my life…there will never be another friend like her. I love you Carole.
Daniel, it’s impossible to find words that are adequate, or worthy of what you and your kids are experiencing. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
A long time ago, Daniel and Carole bought a beautiful craftsman in Portland. Daniel’s affection for mid-century furniture didn’t fit with her vision for the house’s style and Daniel and Carole chose me to make sure the couch had a good home and was properly respected. I was honored that I made the cut. While I knew Carole for a short period of time, I was humbled by her wit and sense of the world and the way in which she carried herself. Daniel, my thoughts are with you like so many others. I realize that is of little comfort in such painful times but I wanted to express my condolences. If Carole is reading this, I am still protecting the couch.
“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose fror all that we love deeply become a part of us” Helen Keller
Dear Daniel, Noah, Billie,& Echo,
Our thoughts are with you all. Stay strong and hold your wonderful memories forever.
Dear Rankin family
You are in our thoughts during this very hard time. We didn’t get to know Caroline very well, but Boaz is in Echo’s class at school and we came to the Haloween party at your place last year. We felt very welcome and were impressed by the kindness of your family.
Sincerely
The Hill Family – Maartje, Bill, Boaz & Kian
Dear Dan, Noah, Billie and Echo,
Your Great Grandma Esther and my Mother Jessie were cousins, which is how we got to be cousins in some silly number or way of counting. From the first time I met your Mom at her wedding weekend, she radiated such joy, love and sensitivity, that was Carole. She is unforgettable. She always made me feel so welcome and special when I would barge into your home on brief visits to Portland. Remember the trampoline? And the fun we all had in New York! Carole was so patient answering my many questions about your horses. I’m so sorry that I can’t be with you in more than spirit on Friday. I’m glad we are related, though sorry that we live so far apart. With much love, Cousin Nora
Your mom was one of a kind. It was a blessing to have known her. Her quick wit, amazing laugh, and creativity were so evident to all around her. She had a light and joy that surrounded her. Your mom was so proud of the three of you. Find strength by leaning on each other and those around you.
Dearest Dan, Billie, Echo and Noah –
Thinking of you today and finding comfort knowing that you are together with those who love you all to celebrate Carole’s heart and her radiance. It will surely be a beautiful day and will give you more thoughts and inspiration to guide you as you move forward together – Carole with you in your hearts always. I only met Carole during our wonderful time in February but she became a fast favorite. It only took that one meeting to know I wanted to be friends forever. What a beautiful soul. She’s given you all great gifts that you’ll discover every day. Be strong together. Much much love to you. Bari
Bille, Echo and Noah,
I want to share with you the picture I have in my head of your mother. Your mom was riding one of my horses. It was one of her first times on a horse and I had planned a nice sedate ride to get her started. Next thing I know, “Boss” had taken off with her. Her arms flapping, body bouncing out of control, she was completely out of balance, and a whisker away from falling off. With my heart in my throat, I raced over to stop Boss and “Save” your mother. When I caught to them. Your mom was laughing the most joyous laugh possible. She literally was glowing with excitement. “Do it again. I want to do it again. Please, please, please can I run him again.” No fear. That’s the picture I have in my head of your mother. No fear — just per joy in a new experience. Daniel, thank you so much for introducing us. I feel privileged to have had the chance to know her and in some small way introduce
her to the world of horses. Her lack of fear, helped me overcome a few of my own. A gift from Carole I can keep for the rest of my life.
My honey Carole (pronounced “Carolee”, because I didn’t want to forget the “e”):
I have many memories of her, most of which produce a wide smile and a silly private giggle.
Have you ever seen a pair of eyes so sparkly with SO MUCH going on behind them? We used to talk – for hours – about the life and neighborhoods that existed back there behind those eyes. Some of the scenery was kinda scary. But when we were together, we always knew we had a partner to walk with when we ventured into that vast world inside.
A giant-sized brain paired with a giant-sized heart. A rare and stunning combination. I used to revel in hearing her words just to witness how that amazing brain worked. “You just can’t turn it off”, we’d say and then fall into peals of laughter.
Her willingness and ability to listen to whatever I had to say made me feel like the most important person in the world in that moment. What a gifted friend! And she somehow gave the very best advice about things she often had zero personal experience in. How did she do that?
She was 100% Carole 100% of the time: Humor. Generosity. Intensity. Intellect. Love.
It’s so hard for me to imagine such a bright light shining somewhere I can no longer see it, all the while knowing it blazes on. I love you Carole. I miss you.
Noah, Billie and Echo, you come from greatest. Your mama is so very loved and greatly respected. I look forward to meeting you and giving you one of those Carole-sized hugs, loaded with love. Dan, my heart and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Laura (aka Rola :)
(I was blessed to work with Carole at Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein in San Francisco)
Dear Dan, Billie, Noah& Echo
We want to let you know that you are in out thoughts and hearts today. This afternoon the Green women are spending time together reminicing about all of the fun and happy times that we shared when we were all young and full of dreams. One of our favorite memories is watching Mom take Carole’s glasses and she would always say “Carole I know what you had to eat for lunch” as she cleaned the peanut butter and jam from the lenses. It is hard to believe that we will not see her smile or hear her infectious laugh again. We are confident however, that her strong spirit will always be with us. We hope that your grief will be easier to bear, surrounded by the love of all the friends and family who are with you today.
You are a star, and we miss you in our classroom. I ache to think what you and your family are feeling and going through, but I know that you are intelligent and creative enough to find grace in this most difficult circumstance.
Dear Dan Billie Noah and Echo, It has been many years since I saw you Dan and never had the opportunity to meet your family much to my regret.I speak to Teddy all the time and he keeps me apprised of your happenings. I live in Kentucky now although my roots are Brooklyn.
To contact you now is one of the saddest moments of my life. All I can say to you all is the great memories you have collected over the years will sustain you in the years to come. With love and hope to meet all of you one day, I remain
Your cousin, Sheldon {Shelly} Yegelwel
Dan,
The service today paid a beautiful tribute to a remarkable woman who I only wish I had known better.
My husband Mark (Waggoner) shared a small but happy memory with us after the service which I wanted to pass along to you. It was last New Year’s Eve at the Cracker and Camper Van concert at Doug Fir. There, he met up with you and Carole. At one point, after moving up toward the stage Mark turned back to you guys and saw Carole up on the table totally rocking out, arms raised high, huge smile on her face. They exchanged a look of total music bliss and connection and it was, as they say, all good.
I hope it helps even a tiny bit to hear of some of these special moments Carole brought to those around her.
Dear Daniel & Family,
On behalf of your friends at Speedo, we wanted to extend our condolences. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We have made a donation to the Animal Shelter in memory of your loving wife.
Love,
Katie, Craig B, Brad, Kenny and Craig S
Dear Dan, Billie, Noah & Echo,
I wrote something on your Mom’s facebook page but Dan says he is pulling it down so I will write something here. I met your Mom in the late 80s at Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein. She was one of the first hires when we moved to 915 Front Street and I had the good fortune to work with her. We ended up doing something really fun which was getting kids to tell us how they would sell a Polaroid camera and writing and shooting their own commercials. It was a blast to see all the great ideas they came up with. Your Mom was so funny and sharp witted. She never let me get lazy in my speech or my thinking. You had to be on your toes with Carole. One of my favorite things she did was publish a list of “banned words” to the entire agency. She could simply not stand cliché and was determined to rid the world of it. Very funny and I still have a copy.
I am so sorry for your loss but please know that your Mom’s memory lives in so many people. You clearly were the center of her world. I wish you nothing but joy and peace in your future. Stay strong. Your wife and mother is always right beside you.
Daniel hired me at BPN in 2000, right after Echo was born. As I settled in to the agency, and got to know Daniel better, I was immediately struck by the way he spoke about Carole. I’ve worked with many happily married people, but none of them have ever spoken about their spouses quite the same way. It was obvious that he wasn’t just madly in love with her, but that he profoundly admired her and couldn’t wait to see what she’d do next. I gradually formed an impression of her as a brilliant, extraordinary, beautiful person, which – when I met Carole – turned out to be absolutely accurate.
I stole this poem. I think it speaks to the beauty and strength of Carole’s character…
To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
to earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better
whether by a healthy child, a garden patch,
or a redeemed social condition;
to know even one life has breathed easier because
you have lived. This is to have succeeded.
Ralph Waldo Emerson
Life Celebration Service
Friday May 21 – 1pm Holman’s Funeral Service
2610 SE Hawthorne Boulevard
Portland, Oregon
503-232-5131
Reception
(please leave a note here if you plan to attend the reception)
Following the service
Corbett Fire Station
Community Hall
36930 E. Historic Columbia River Hwy
Corbett, Oregon
I am Carole’s aunt (Bob’s sister) from Tilbury, Ontario. I am very sorry to hear of Carole’s passing and I would like to offer my condolences to her husband and children. She had a beautiful family and they will certainly miss her. The last time I saw her was at her mom’s funeral in November.
Rest in Peace Carole.
Dear Noah, Billie, Echo, and Dan-
I was one of the many people who were fortunate to have known and worked with Carole during her years at Goodby, Silverstein & Partners in San Francisco.
I thoroughly enjoyed every moment of every interaction I had with her. She was, as you know, super smart. But she had not not just intellectual intelligence – she also had incredible emotional intelligence. She could see right through the masks that we all try to put on and and sense what was really going on underneath. And she cared deeply about what others felt and what mattered to them.
If we were frustrated that we could not find a solution to a client’s business problem, Carole could quickly point the way down a smart, previously unthought of path. if we were upset with our own internal problems or issues, she could quickly relieve our stress with her (wonderfully) outrageous sense of humor and biting laugh.
Though it’s been many years since she left GSP, her influence on the way the company thinks and behaves continues to be felt. Hundreds of people have joined the company since Carole left, but I am sure they would all feel instantly at home with Carole if she were somehow to miraculously be transported back there today.
I myself had lost touch with Carole until only a few weeks ago, when we reconnected via Facebook. The pictures she posted there and the things she wrote there about life with all of you (and your animals!) made me jealous.
I can only imagine how hard a blow it is to have her
taken away from you so suddenly and so young. I can also only hope that you can take some comfort in knowing that during her too-short time here on earth she gave so much to so many people. Thanks for sharing her with the rest of us.
All best wishes in these difficult days, and for the future.
Harold Sogard
I will never forget Carole, the woman who was cheering on Billie’s hockey game one minute, rocking out to Noah’s music another minute, madly in love with her husband, farmer girl the next minute and being a snuggle bug with Echo. Carole you were one of a kind so caring and loving. We will miss you greatly, but are
comforted knowing that you have peace.
Love,
D’Arcy, Bill, Eli and Abby
Sheila Hume
May 17, 2010 at 4:21 am
We go back to a time before kids, when it was all about our puppies! Then came our children.
I didn’t get to see Carole as much when the family moved from Vancouver to Portland, but the love I felt for her and her family never waivered. Her wit, her intelligence and warmth was unmatched. I will never forget our last hug and seeing her standing with Cole, happy in her farm home with her wonderful family and animals!
I love you my friend and will miss you always.
Much love to Dan and the kids.
Oh Noah, Billie, and Echo . . . what a beautiful reflection you are of your mother’s love and devotion to you. There are no words that will truly comfort you, but I can tell you from recent experience that hearing the tribute bestowed on my mother made me so proud to be her daughter. Each day, your lives will be a tribute to her, in loving memory of her and what she wanted for you. You are precious and I consider myself blessed to be one of those in a huge long line of people who will stand by you and be there for you. With much love,
Mrs. Swanson
Daniel, please know that Terri and my thoughts are with you and your children at this difficult time. Wishing you strength.
Noah, Billy and Echo,
Your mom was beautiful inside and out. We are so blessed to have shared in her life and have you three here in the Corbett Schools. We will miss your mom dearly, but think of her fondly. You three are incredible kids—so talented, bright and fun and so very precious to your mom. She loved you immensely.
Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers.
Strength and peace to you,
Desiree Chiu
I am deeply saddened to hear of Carole’s death. My condolences go out to her husband and children. Also, my deepest sympathies to my Uncle Bob and cousins Tom and Doug. Unfortunately, I have not seen Carole since a Rankin reunion in the early 90s. My memories of Carole are of when we were children and would see each other when our families visited our grandparents in Tillsonburg. I recall spending a couple summer vacations with Carole at her home in Tillsonburg and when she lived in Port Rowan where my Uncle Bob owned and ran a bowling alley. Those were the days we (Tom, Doug, Carole and I) would run behind the scenes setting the pins back up when they were knocked down by bowlers. Good memories, I will cherish. Carole will be deeply missed.
I only had the privilege of meeting Carol once or twice in passing at the rink when Danny and I were playing hockey together. While I didnt know her personally if she is anything like Dan she must have been nothing short of amazing.
I cant even find the word to express my thoughts for you Dan and your family so I will just say this, I love ya buddy and if you need anything dont hesitate to shoot that email or phone call to me.
Respectfully
Jay
I (Jonathan) am one of Dan’s cousins; (my Mom is a sister of Dan’s Mom). We were devastated to hear this terribly sad news. Our hearts go out to Daniel, Noah, Billy and Echo, to Seymour and Anita, to Carole’s family, and to all of their extended family. We send our condolences and we know that Carole’s wonderful husband and children will remember her always, as will we. We grieve with all of you.
Some people believe that we all have auras; an invisible radiation that seems to surround an individual or thing. There is a belief that sometimes this energy is so strong, others can feel it. Most people will use the example of walking into a room after an argument has occurred, and being able to feel the tension without knowing what had happened first. I want to say that every time I was in Carole’s presence, I felt undeniable love. It surrounded her. I noticeably felt good whenever Carole was near.
We sometimes cross paths with people who leave us in awe, and to me, Carole always had this affect. Whether it was her gentle grace with her beloved animals, or her adoring affection and beaming pride she exuded while with her husband and children, Carole didn’t seem to have to use words to explain this love. Its energy just encircled you.
It is my belief that when people or things have this much energy inside them, it is not lost, merely dispersed and I think this positive energy is Carole’s gift to us. In a world where it can be too easy to feel scared and uncertain of anything, it’s Carole’s energy that will make us feel at ease and more importantly, love. As said by the Beatles, “All you need is love,” and I take comfort in knowing that when I feel it without reason, it is because I am feeling her energy around me. I want to thank her for that. I feel so fortunate to have even been in her presence.
I am Carole’s aunt (Bob’s sister) and I am so sorry to hear of Carole’s passing. Please accept my condolences to Dan, Noah, Billie and Echo – you will have an angel in Heaven watching over you.
To Daniel, Noah, Billie, Echo, and all of Carole’s extended family,
I can’t put into words how truly sorry I am for your loss. I will always remember Carole’s remarkable smile, infectious laugh, and tremendous love I saw her radiate when she was around her family. I hope one day it will bring you comfort to know that even people who knew her for a very short time thought she was beautiful inside and out and believe that she was truly one of a kind. There has been and always will be a special place in my heart for Carole.
Respectfully,
Maggie Harasyn
Daniel, our deepest deepest sympathy and condolences go out to you and the children. I (Elizabeth) only met Carole once a couple of years ago at the Seder at your parents in Michigan, but her passing nonetheless is no less significant to me. I CANNOT even imagine what you are going through now!! We are thinking of you and the children with love.
Daniel,
Words cannot express the loss you must feel, but I pray that you can find solace in knowing how much you and your family are loved. We are sending our prayers for peace and understand in this difficult time.
With love–
Jim and Lisa
Although I only met Carole briefly over a long weekend, her warmth and enthusiasm for her children and Daniel shone forth so clearly. Daniel, my heart goes out to you and your family now, during this incredibily difficult time.
With love–
Jenny Thomas and family
Daniel – I never had the opportunity to meet Carole in person, but enjoyed the many stories you shared of your family over the years we worked together. I always felt that you were one of the lucky ones who found his soul mate and I am deeply sorry for your loss. Carole will be with you and your children in spirit always– Lorna
We never had the privilege of knowing Carole directly..but her vibrant spirit and good nature shine through in daughter Echo – whom we have come to know over the past year via the classroom she shares with our daughter Elanor. We wish your family peace and grace in this wrenching time; strength and everlasting love going forward.
Dan,
I send you my sincere hopes for whatever comfort can be found at a time when full consolation is unimaginable. The best wishes of my family go out to you all at this very sad time. I only met Carole briefly, but her energy was great, and her warm and loving nature apparent. We’ll be thinking of you. Tom, Karen, Julia, and Jenny.
Dear Noah, Billie, Echo and Daniel,
Our hearts go out to each of you. Carole was really special. Upon meeting her I felt as if I had always known her. We attended many field trips together, your Halloween parties, sat near each other at plays and school dinners. We shared that special love of animals. I so hoped to know her better. Hugs to each of you. You are a reflection of her warmth, humor and the gentle sweetness that she extended to others. Please know that Cami, Peri, Rob and I are thinking of you at this time. We are very sorry and hope that time will bring you peace.
Dear Dan,
I had the chance to meet Carole a few months ago and was struck by her radiance. I hope that your memories bring you strength at this time of remarkable loss. Our thoughts are with you.
Laura and Family
All the wonderful memories collected in the thoughts above say it all. I am a friend of Carole’s from Tillsonburg where we grew up. I have so many memories of such fun times- although I am sure our parents wouldn’t call them all fun. I just can’t imagine life without the fullness and brightness of Carole’s smile in it. I guess we can just remember and think of how bright heaven now is with her in it. I miss her terribly.
As I sorted through my pictures I didn’t realize how good Carole was at avoiding the camera. If anyone can share pictures with me I would appreciate it. My email is sdberlet@execulink.com
Take care
My heart goes out to you and the kids. Carole was my cousin and great friend growing up. We spent many an hour together feeding the ducks in Simcoe, catching pike in Port Rowan (live), sharing dreams for the future and our looove for Rush (yes its true). Carole stood up with me in my wedding. I have so many memories but what stands out for me is Carole’s humour and passion. Even though we did not talk often I will miss her like mad. Love you Carole. Michele
A woman of briliance, beauty, compassion, and playfulness. It was such a pleasure to speak with her – always left me feeling like a dear old friend had just given me a warm and welcoming hug. And her laugh! So lovely and full of joy. Thinking of you Daniel during this most difficult of times. I am so very sad, but will not miss the joy of the blessings she brought. Kelly
I am Carole’s brother-in-law. From the day that I met Carole, I always looked forward to spending time with her. Carole was so funny, cool, and kind to me. Walking around the house I keep expecting to hear the sound of her laughter around every corner. She always knew what to say to make me feel good when times were bad, I wish I could hear her now.
I love you sister-in-law and miss you so much. The only thing that has made this dark time bearable is that I see so much of you and your light in your beautiful children. I am so happy you met and married my brother. Even if your time with us was short, it was very sweet. Love you always Carole. David
Dear Daniel,
I am so sorry to hear this very sad news. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers. I wish you strength and peace.
With love,
Kimberly Hoskins
Dear Noah, Billie and Echo,
I knew your mother and father long before you were born. In fact, in a strange way I guess I played an unwitting part in bringing them together. In 1989 I joined Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein in San Francisco as planning director, and the very first time I spoke about planning to the agency, Carole (who was already there, working in account management) came up to me and said, ‘I want to do that job.’ She was smart and funny in an infectious kind of way, knowing instinctively how to do the job before she’d even started. She was great with clients, great with creatives, and people in the real world would just want to tell her things that they had never told anyone else. She was awesome – apart from the day when she told Jeff Goodby that his great advertising line, “got milk?” should really be “have you got enough milk?” she was flawless, inspired, inspiring. And much, much smarter than I will ever be… but that was okay because if she knew that – and I’m sure she did – she never let on.
And then I hired your father. Daniel was the first big hire from another agency in my department, and Carole instantly resented his presence. It was her department, and he was an imposter. In his early weeks at the agency, everything Carole did and said indicated that she couldn’t stand him. And I came to accept that as normal: Carole didn’t like Daniel, and I should try to keep them apart.
A year or so later, when Daniel resigned, I felt duty-bound to inform Carole, as the longest-standing member of my department, before she heard the news from someone else. I went to her office and told her that Daniel was leaving, and she immediately burst into tears. After that rocky start, they had slowly come to accept each other, then started dating… as Shakespeare said, ‘The course of true love never did run smooth.’
Carole married Daniel and they moved away, to Vancouver and then to Portland. And some time along the way, you were all born. I never saw your mother again after she left San Francisco, but recently I was thrilled to get back in touch with her on Facebook – to hear about you, and your animals, and your wonderful life in Oregon. Even reading her words on a computer screen, I could hear her voice and feel her energy. And whenever I think of her I can still hear her laughter.
I’ll always be grateful to Carole, because without her Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein would have been a very different place. People who worked there in later years, who never even knew her, owe her so much. Because more than helping to grow the agency, Carole’s personality had helped to shape its culture in its early, more malleable days.
Your mother was a wonderful woman. And her loss hurts so many of us. But to read the comments above, and to feel what I feel about her, I know that in her limited time with us, Carole touched so many people so very deeply. If most people lived to be 300 years old, they could not affect others in the way that Carole did in a fraction of the time.
It would be easy to say that we’ll all miss her. But that wouldn’t be true, because I suspect that for anyone who ever knew her, she’ll always be there.
My thoughts are with you all.
Jon
From Carole’s extended family in Indiana we send you all our thoughts and prayers.A smile that lit up a room, a sense of humor that brightened a cloudy day, and a heart bursting with love for the world.May you carry this in your hearts always. Fly free, Carole, Love, Sue
Beyond sadness, words fail, thinking of you.
Dear Dan,
I am so sorry. Stay strong. Stay strong. Stay. Strong. Ask for understanding and strength and it will come. And use the shoulders that are near you.
My thoughts have been with your family all week. I knew Carole as the vibrant, loving, funny and very cool mom of Echo. I was Echo’s teacher for two years and was totally enchanted by Carol’s sense of humor and spunk with the kids. She made us all smile.
Please be comforted by the abundance of warm thoughts for your family.
Megan Shaw
Love and thoughts from SF! Sorry I cannot make it up there Friday. Big HUGS and LOVE to Noah, Billie,Echoand Dan! I will always remember your mom as a breath of fresh air whenever she would come in to SOR. She always brought a smile and humor, we had good laughs. I always appreciated a her ability to say what she was thinking. She was one of my favorites! Caroles beauty, humor and spirit will live on in each of you! Love Greta
Dear Dan-
It was such a pleasure to meet you last year when you visited Alex in NYC, and we 3 had dinner at the party-light-busy-Indian restaurant I recommended, before–oops–i fully thought through our collective shins’ lengths VS. the relatively shorter ones of the good people who laid out the tables.
Anyway–that evening–I was enchanted by the idyllic life you described that your family enjoyed, and how much it resembled the happier times of my own childhood.
Everything expressed by you, and everyone here, has made me deeply sad that you and Carole’s time together as a 2, and as a family, was brief, but PROFOUNDLY aware the value of what can be joyous and fortuitous in what is brief.
I wish you, and your dear, precious kid-lings, peace.
Yannie
I am in awe of Carole’s humor, creativity and gift of expression. Reading the memories posted here, I hear her laugh. She was a passionate, dedicated mom, yet down to earth too, and so reassuring when I was expecting my first baby.
May her love and radiance warm you forever, and may the love of many friends sustain you through this difficult time. We are here for you Dan, Noah, Billie and Echo.
Lots of love from Sue, Rob, Katy and Austin.
I am sorry that I did not know Carole better, but my daughter Sydney is in Echo’s class. We send you condolences, please do not hesitate to let us know if there is anything we can do or if you just need someone to listen.
Lots of Love from Sydney, Cynthia and Jeff Mershon
Uncle Dan’s brother said it perfectly … and that is what I will miss the most as well … Aunt Carole’s crazy infectious laugh that could be heard from every corner of the house/yard. Due to distance we weren’t able to get together as often as most families but when we did it was as if we were together all the time. I will miss the crazy LOUD laugh the most … when we’re all together, once you heard that laugh you just couldn’t help but to laugh with her.
“The most wasted of all days is one without laughter” – E. E. Cummings
Miss you lots.
I work with Daniel and Sandstrom. Although I did not get to know Carole well, I had the opportunity to spend a little time with her at work parties and I enjoyed talking to her, hearing funny stories and family anecdotes. A very charming, sweet and funny woman. And as I get to know Daniel over our few years of working together, I know how much love, caring and devotion their family has for each other. His tales of family adventure on the farm or with the kids is always entertaining and you can see the joy it brings to him. My thoughts are with all of you as you celebrate the time you have spent together and as you find strength and joy for the future.
Love, Robin
Every morning I am reminded of Carole’s light. Many years ago, a few days before mothers day , I returned home to find a perfect lavender hydrangea in a simple clay pot waiting for me on our patio. A week before Carole had come for a visit with Noah and Billie. She was pregnant with Echo. It was a beautiful day. We spent the afternoon talking and watching the kids play in the backyard, and throwing the “fetch ball” to Cole. It was one of those days when everything felt right; the children, the dog,and a good friend. A week later I came home to find the hydrangea with a note attached that read: I love you….Carole.
The small hydrangea is now huge, and I walk past it many times a day. I feel very blessed to have had Carole in my life…there will never be another friend like her. I love you Carole.
Daniel, it’s impossible to find words that are adequate, or worthy of what you and your kids are experiencing. Just know that my thoughts and prayers are with you guys.
A long time ago, Daniel and Carole bought a beautiful craftsman in Portland. Daniel’s affection for mid-century furniture didn’t fit with her vision for the house’s style and Daniel and Carole chose me to make sure the couch had a good home and was properly respected. I was honored that I made the cut. While I knew Carole for a short period of time, I was humbled by her wit and sense of the world and the way in which she carried herself. Daniel, my thoughts are with you like so many others. I realize that is of little comfort in such painful times but I wanted to express my condolences. If Carole is reading this, I am still protecting the couch.
Billie I am so sorry to hear about your mom. My families thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Love, Meghan #3
“What we once enjoyed and deeply loved we can never lose fror all that we love deeply become a part of us” Helen Keller
Dear Daniel, Noah, Billie,& Echo,
Our thoughts are with you all. Stay strong and hold your wonderful memories forever.
Uncle Ted and Aunt Carole
Dear Rankin family
You are in our thoughts during this very hard time. We didn’t get to know Caroline very well, but Boaz is in Echo’s class at school and we came to the Haloween party at your place last year. We felt very welcome and were impressed by the kindness of your family.
Sincerely
The Hill Family – Maartje, Bill, Boaz & Kian
Dear Dan, Noah, Billie and Echo,
Your Great Grandma Esther and my Mother Jessie were cousins, which is how we got to be cousins in some silly number or way of counting. From the first time I met your Mom at her wedding weekend, she radiated such joy, love and sensitivity, that was Carole. She is unforgettable. She always made me feel so welcome and special when I would barge into your home on brief visits to Portland. Remember the trampoline? And the fun we all had in New York! Carole was so patient answering my many questions about your horses. I’m so sorry that I can’t be with you in more than spirit on Friday. I’m glad we are related, though sorry that we live so far apart. With much love, Cousin Nora
Dear Echo,
I miss you and I am truly sorry for your families loss. “You are a very special, artistic and loveable young lady.
Love Mrs “B”
Billie, Echo, and Noah
Your mom was one of a kind. It was a blessing to have known her. Her quick wit, amazing laugh, and creativity were so evident to all around her. She had a light and joy that surrounded her. Your mom was so proud of the three of you. Find strength by leaning on each other and those around you.
Peace and comfort to all of you,
Mrs. Dawkins
Dearest Dan, Billie, Echo and Noah –
Thinking of you today and finding comfort knowing that you are together with those who love you all to celebrate Carole’s heart and her radiance. It will surely be a beautiful day and will give you more thoughts and inspiration to guide you as you move forward together – Carole with you in your hearts always. I only met Carole during our wonderful time in February but she became a fast favorite. It only took that one meeting to know I wanted to be friends forever. What a beautiful soul. She’s given you all great gifts that you’ll discover every day. Be strong together. Much much love to you. Bari
Bille, Echo and Noah,
I want to share with you the picture I have in my head of your mother. Your mom was riding one of my horses. It was one of her first times on a horse and I had planned a nice sedate ride to get her started. Next thing I know, “Boss” had taken off with her. Her arms flapping, body bouncing out of control, she was completely out of balance, and a whisker away from falling off. With my heart in my throat, I raced over to stop Boss and “Save” your mother. When I caught to them. Your mom was laughing the most joyous laugh possible. She literally was glowing with excitement. “Do it again. I want to do it again. Please, please, please can I run him again.” No fear. That’s the picture I have in my head of your mother. No fear — just per joy in a new experience. Daniel, thank you so much for introducing us. I feel privileged to have had the chance to know her and in some small way introduce
her to the world of horses. Her lack of fear, helped me overcome a few of my own. A gift from Carole I can keep for the rest of my life.
Lynn
My honey Carole (pronounced “Carolee”, because I didn’t want to forget the “e”):
I have many memories of her, most of which produce a wide smile and a silly private giggle.
Have you ever seen a pair of eyes so sparkly with SO MUCH going on behind them? We used to talk – for hours – about the life and neighborhoods that existed back there behind those eyes. Some of the scenery was kinda scary. But when we were together, we always knew we had a partner to walk with when we ventured into that vast world inside.
A giant-sized brain paired with a giant-sized heart. A rare and stunning combination. I used to revel in hearing her words just to witness how that amazing brain worked. “You just can’t turn it off”, we’d say and then fall into peals of laughter.
Her willingness and ability to listen to whatever I had to say made me feel like the most important person in the world in that moment. What a gifted friend! And she somehow gave the very best advice about things she often had zero personal experience in. How did she do that?
She was 100% Carole 100% of the time: Humor. Generosity. Intensity. Intellect. Love.
It’s so hard for me to imagine such a bright light shining somewhere I can no longer see it, all the while knowing it blazes on. I love you Carole. I miss you.
Noah, Billie and Echo, you come from greatest. Your mama is so very loved and greatly respected. I look forward to meeting you and giving you one of those Carole-sized hugs, loaded with love. Dan, my heart and prayers are with you.
With deepest sympathy,
Laura (aka Rola :)
(I was blessed to work with Carole at Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein in San Francisco)
Dear Dan, Billie, Noah& Echo
We want to let you know that you are in out thoughts and hearts today. This afternoon the Green women are spending time together reminicing about all of the fun and happy times that we shared when we were all young and full of dreams. One of our favorite memories is watching Mom take Carole’s glasses and she would always say “Carole I know what you had to eat for lunch” as she cleaned the peanut butter and jam from the lenses. It is hard to believe that we will not see her smile or hear her infectious laugh again. We are confident however, that her strong spirit will always be with us. We hope that your grief will be easier to bear, surrounded by the love of all the friends and family who are with you today.
Auntie Marg, Patti and Michele
Dear Noah,
You are a star, and we miss you in our classroom. I ache to think what you and your family are feeling and going through, but I know that you are intelligent and creative enough to find grace in this most difficult circumstance.
Sincerely,
Mr. Long
Dear Dan Billie Noah and Echo, It has been many years since I saw you Dan and never had the opportunity to meet your family much to my regret.I speak to Teddy all the time and he keeps me apprised of your happenings. I live in Kentucky now although my roots are Brooklyn.
To contact you now is one of the saddest moments of my life. All I can say to you all is the great memories you have collected over the years will sustain you in the years to come. With love and hope to meet all of you one day, I remain
Your cousin, Sheldon {Shelly} Yegelwel
Dan,
The service today paid a beautiful tribute to a remarkable woman who I only wish I had known better.
My husband Mark (Waggoner) shared a small but happy memory with us after the service which I wanted to pass along to you. It was last New Year’s Eve at the Cracker and Camper Van concert at Doug Fir. There, he met up with you and Carole. At one point, after moving up toward the stage Mark turned back to you guys and saw Carole up on the table totally rocking out, arms raised high, huge smile on her face. They exchanged a look of total music bliss and connection and it was, as they say, all good.
I hope it helps even a tiny bit to hear of some of these special moments Carole brought to those around her.
Dear Daniel & Family,
On behalf of your friends at Speedo, we wanted to extend our condolences. Your family is in our thoughts and prayers. We have made a donation to the Animal Shelter in memory of your loving wife.
Love,
Katie, Craig B, Brad, Kenny and Craig S
Dear Dan, Billie, Noah & Echo,
I wrote something on your Mom’s facebook page but Dan says he is pulling it down so I will write something here. I met your Mom in the late 80s at Goodby, Berlin & Silverstein. She was one of the first hires when we moved to 915 Front Street and I had the good fortune to work with her. We ended up doing something really fun which was getting kids to tell us how they would sell a Polaroid camera and writing and shooting their own commercials. It was a blast to see all the great ideas they came up with. Your Mom was so funny and sharp witted. She never let me get lazy in my speech or my thinking. You had to be on your toes with Carole. One of my favorite things she did was publish a list of “banned words” to the entire agency. She could simply not stand cliché and was determined to rid the world of it. Very funny and I still have a copy.
I am so sorry for your loss but please know that your Mom’s memory lives in so many people. You clearly were the center of her world. I wish you nothing but joy and peace in your future. Stay strong. Your wife and mother is always right beside you.
Love,
Tod
Daniel hired me at BPN in 2000, right after Echo was born. As I settled in to the agency, and got to know Daniel better, I was immediately struck by the way he spoke about Carole. I’ve worked with many happily married people, but none of them have ever spoken about their spouses quite the same way. It was obvious that he wasn’t just madly in love with her, but that he profoundly admired her and couldn’t wait to see what she’d do next. I gradually formed an impression of her as a brilliant, extraordinary, beautiful person, which – when I met Carole – turned out to be absolutely accurate.
Love,
Leslee
I stole this poem. I think it speaks to the beauty and strength of Carole’s character…
To laugh often and much; to win the respect of intelligent people
and the affection of children;
to earn the appreciation of honest critics
and endure the betrayal of false friends;
to appreciate beauty; to find the best in others;
to leave the world a bit better
whether by a healthy child, a garden patch,
or a redeemed social condition;
to know even one life has breathed easier because
you have lived. This is to have succeeded.
Ralph Waldo Emerson